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Relationship Red Flags You May Not Recognize

From friends, to lovers, to employers — the warning signs are all there.

Bev Potter
4 min readSep 13, 2024
Photo by Bernd 📷 Dittrich on Unsplash

Everybody know relationship red flags like not returning calls or never picking up the bill when you go out to eat.

But there are so many more that I’ve skated right past throughout my life when I should have been applying the brakes. Hard.

For example, this cake.

Photo by the author.

This cake has been sitting on our microwave at work for the last two weeks.

It has whipped cream frosting and — needless to say — it should have been refrigerated this entire time.

But no. It’s my boss’s birthday cake and he won’t let me throw it away. He’s actually been eating it, and somehow, he’s still alive.

When it grows legs and walks away, I suppose that problem will be solved.

They don’t consider other people’s convenience.

The only place we have at work to make our lunch or do food prep is a tiny, tiny sink area, and the top of this microwave.

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Bev Potter
Bev Potter

Written by Bev Potter

Legal secretary by day, insomniac by night. Ally. BA, MA. Humor, pop culture, and things that make you think. My weekly-ish newsletter is bevpotter.substack.com

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